Services

Coaching:

Shela Dean is passionate about helping couples have the emotional intimacy that is the linchpin of all great relationships. Whether you are just now thinking about marriage or you’ve got a decade’s worth of “stuff” that has become a barrier to intimacy, Shela can help.

Throughout her career, Shela has seen couples in all marriage stages, from great to needs-work to needs-serious-help. Relationships aren’t fine one day, then fail the next. Almost always, the issues separating couples are a series of hurts and disappointments that turn into a big brick wall, preventing real emotional and marriage intimacy.

Shela’s practical been-there-done-that approach to relationship coaching helps you hammer down those walls, guiding you to the relationship you’ve always dreamed of – deep emotional intimacy with the person you love.

Shela will coach you in person in central Virginia, or on the phone from anywhere in the world.

“Frequent Foreplay Miles helped us ‘see’ each other in a way we never have before, and it helped us know what we can do to improve our marriage while having fun doing it!”

Genevieve R.

Workshops

Shela Dean is a great relationship coach – she also shines in group settings, particularly at events aimed at helping couples create a better relationship.

Funny, wise and incredibly insightful, Shela leads groups to a thorough understanding of the steps they can take today toward more emotional intimacy – and have lots of fun doing it!

Topics include:

• Keep Score & Keep Your Marriage Happy! Designed primarily for couples.
• Intimacy: It’s Not Just About Sex Focuses on the development of emotional intimacy as the foundation for sexual intimacy.
• Don’t Let The Passion for Your Business Kill the Passion in Your Love Life! Designed for entrepreneurs who may find their love life taking a back seat to the demands of their business.

Shela’s method of “keeping score” doesn’t mean tallying up all the ways your spouse drives you nuts. Her Frequent Foreplay Miles approach turns keeping score into a way to deepen marriage intimacy, turning the better relationship you’ve always dreamed of into a reality.

Contact Shela today about developing a workshop for your group – you’ll have a great time, and get on the path to a great relationship!

“Shela spoke to the Executive Girlfriends’ Group about her book Frequent Foreplay Miles. It was the most practical and everyday useful advice about relationships that I have ever heard. Many of the women (including me!) gave a copy of the book to their husbands and are looking forward to the results of having a common and fun metric for measuring the health of our marriages.”
Chicke Fitzgerald, Founder, Executive Girlfriends’ Group.