• The light bulb really went off when my wife Betty and I attended one of Shela’s workshops. I finally get why we sometimes misunderstand each other. Now we have the tools to clear up those misunderstandings, and we’re doing a better job of placing ourselves in the other’s shoes.”

    Chip G.



Shela is passionate about helping couples have more out of life and love. Her unique blend of humor, insight, and practical meat-and-potatoes approach helps couples do just that. And have a darned good time doing it.

You can have the relationship you want. You can start today.


Shela loves an audience. And they love her. So, if you’re a conference planner looking for a dynamic funny, inspiring presentation, look no further. Here’s what people are saying: “Shela Dean’s presentation, BETTER RELATIONSHIPS: FROM THE BOARDROOM TO THE BEDROOM … was one of the best I’ve ever seen.”

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Shela is the bestselling author of Frequent Foreplay Miles, Your Ticket to Total Intimacy, Frequent Foreplay Miles for the Remarried, and ReDate Your Mate, 4 Steps to Falling in Love All Over Again. Her self-help books have been described as “the most practical and everyday useful advice about relationships … ever heard.”

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    Rebuilding Your Life After Divorce Mountain Retreat North Lake Tahoe, CA September 15 - 17, 2012